We are not the person other people wish we were. We are who we decide to be.
A man far oftener appears to have a decided character from persistently following his temperament than from persistently following his principles.
Maybe she just wanted to be the one to decide when things happened between them. Then again, what women didn't want to decide that?
Orson Scott Card
Elections belong to the people. It's their decision. If they decide to turn their back on the fire and burn their behinds, then they will just have to sit on their blisters.